Through the Law of Attraction, it is said like attracts like. What you think about, you bring about. We are like human magnets when it comes to our thoughts. If we have positive thoughts, we attract positive things. In order to have more positive people in our lives, we need to invite them in. You may be saying, “I want positive things, I want to be positive, but why do I need to have more positive people?”
Here’s the reason. When you attract like-minded positive people, together you can focus on obtaining your desires. Positive people will encourage and support you. On the other hand, negative people will tell you that you can’t achieve your goals, and that they’re too hard or unreachable.
Negativity breeds negativity.
If you’re continually bombarded with negative phrases in your thinking, such as “I just can’t make ends meet,” “There’s never enough,” or “I just can’t seem to get ahead,” then you’re attracting more negativity into your life.
The energy of the universe will always respond to your song, so make your song harmonious with your desires, not your frustrations!
If you find yourself focusing on your small paycheck, physical ailments or unfulfilling relationships, it’s time to make a change. Maybe your parents were role models of criticism instead of encouragement, or maybe you’ve always surrounded yourself with negative friends.
Whatever the reason, it’s time to break this cycle of negativity and get that positivity into your life once and for all. Consider raising your standard of expectation. Find people to associate with who emit positive energy.
When seeking other positive people, think of people you admire and identify their traits you especially enjoy. You’ll be generally attracted to people who have a similar sense of humor or who hold the same set of values.
Here are some tips to consider when attracting positivity:
Look for the positive in all people.
There is always something positive in a person. Sometimes it takes a little work to find it. For negative people, it is far easier to see someone’s faults before seeing their goodness. Be like the positive person you want to be and don’t criticize. Challenge yourself to look only for a person’s good qualities.
Know your talents.
Positive people understand they have talents. They don’t flaunt them, they share them. Be aware of your own gifts and talents and share them with the world. You will feel stronger and more positive when you understand your gifts and share with others.
Extend compassion toward everyone, including yourself. We don’t always accomplish all we hope to on time or in the perfect way we desire. However, positive energy allows us to realize that it’s okay to miss the mark sometimes when we’re doing the best we can. Sometimes we need to give ourselves and those around us some grace.
Positive energy is open-minded. Listen to all points of view and do your best to understand them, regardless of how different from your own they are. Trying to change someone’s mind is usually futile, so, even if you’re right, save your energy, understand their opinion, and move on.
Hold the judgment.
Give others the benefit of the doubt. Negative people are continually judging others and love finding fault. Judging produces negative energy and attracts more of the same back to you. Holding the judgment doesn’t mean you have to blindly accept everything around you. Be sure to use your wisdom and decide what is right and what is not. If someone is doing something that negatively affects you or those around you, approach the situation in love and work it out the best you safely can.
Express your true self in thoughts, words, and actions. Live in a way you know that is authentically you. There is only one you in this world, and the world needs you to be who you are, not someone you look up to or admire. It’s tough sometimes not to try to be someone you are not. You can learn from others’ good qualities, but be sure to stay true to yourself in the process.
Don’t be afraid to admit to having occasional negative thoughts and emotions. We’re all human, and negative thoughts are a part of human nature. The key is not to dwell on them. Learn to allow yourself time to process the emotion, and move on. If you have difficulty letting go, consider talking to someone or getting some help with an Emotion Code session (more on that in another blog).
Celebrate the success and happiness of others.
Negative people are jealous, they are always comparing, and play the victim. They consistently say “why didn’t I get that?” “Why wasn’t I picked?” Positive people, on the other hand, are thrilled when others succeed. Use someone else’s success as a motivator to make you a better person.
Balance fulfillment and serving others.
If you spend your life trying to solely serve others, you may find yourself ignoring your own needs. Positive energy is balanced. That means you need to take time out for self care, get adequate rest, and eat healthy food. Keep yourself physically healthy and you will have an easier time staying positive.
Persevere in spite of fear or defeat.
We all experience defeat and disappointment! Rather than bemoaning a setback, use it as a chance to learn something new and prepare for your next challenge. Ask yourself what lessons you learned as you came up with a solution. Look at the challenge as a positive, not as a failure. It is never really a failure if you get back up, learn, and move on.
Follow your dreams and desires.
Embrace your joy every step of the way as you achieve your purpose. You are here for a reason, find that reason, set the goals to accomplish your purpose, and pursue those goals with everything you have.
People with positive energy approach the world with an open heart and a sense of humor. They refuse to be affected by cynicism and bitterness. They strive to see the best in the world around them, revel in the success of others, while diligently pursuing their own goals.
Becoming a positive person today will help you attract more positive people into your life tomorrow. The more positive people that surround you, the more you’ll feel joy, contentment, and fulfillment in your own life!
Find your purpose – find your joy!
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